Daily Pilot Sports Editor Steve Virgen went bald at the St. Baldrick's Foundation event at The Harp Inn in Costa Mesa on Sunday. (Steve Virgen / March 30, 2014)

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When I stop by The Harp Inn in Costa Mesa, it's usually to unwind or to have a good time. But I was there for a different reason Sunday when the St. Baldrick's Foundation held its special head-shaving event to raise money for children's cancer research.

I still had a great time, one that ended up being deeply profound and meaningful. I never intended to become a part of the story. I did feel connected to the event because my father, Julian, died of leukemia when he was 50, and I also know people close to my heart who are dealing with other forms of cancer.

I can't imagine a child going through such a horrible ordeal. And then I think of the family too, and the pain they must feel. It can be overwhelming, especially if you have experienced any part of it.

What a great charity event, I thought, and I wanted to write about it. Mike Shannon changed my intent and my angle. Like so many people who deal with the effects of the disease, he changed my perspective on life: I can do more. I can be more.

Shannon is a pediatrician from San Clemente. He was one of 47 people who had their heads shaved at The Harp on Sunday. He was eating an Irish taco and drinking a beer when I stopped to talk to him at the bar. It seemed everyone at the event had a story to tell, a reason why they would go bald for charity.

I had to ask Shannon.

"I do it for all the kids I care for who have cancer or who have had cancer," he said.

That's great, I told him, and I thought I had enough for my story. But Shannon gave me more to write about. He offered a $500 donation to the St. Baldrick's Foundation if I went bald.

I thought about everyone in my life, and others I have written about who have cancer, and I agreed.

However, as I sat down to have the little hair that I had clipped off, I began to think: What on earth am I doing? I didn't even have any alcohol in me.

But I just laughed as I was introduced as Steve Virgen from the Daily Pilot and my story was told. I continued to smile because I wanted it to be a fun time, which it really was. I felt special to be a part of such a great event, and I'm sure the rest of the shavees would say the same.

Alan Baumgardner shaved my head. Last year, at the same event at The Harp, Baumgardner went bald after Shannon used the same proposal. That shaving went for $1,000, as someone else matched Shannon's $500 donation.

Baumgardner clipped my hair into a Mohawk, as Shannon snapped pictures that I would later post on my Facebook and Twitter pages, which resulted in colorful comments. For a moment I was the Latino version of Mr. T.

One last portion of hair remained to be clipped and Baumgardner left that for 12-year-old Clark Frehner of Ladera Ranch. Frehner has been shaving his head for the cause since he was 5. He has a cousin who has cancer and other friends dealing with the disease.

Later in the day, Frehner was knighted in a formal ceremony as he became a Knight of the Bald Table because of all the money he has raised and all the hair he has lost for the St. Baldrick's Foundation.

The foundation raised close to $60,000 Sunday, coming from the shavees, a silent auction and other items for sale. In addition, The Harp donated 10% of that day's sales to the cause.

Kathleen Price, a volunteer event organizer for St. Baldrick's, would call that a success. Last year, there were 17 shavees. She helped start the event in Orange County two years ago, when it was in Fullerton. Ins the past two events they raised just over $52,000.

Everyone seemed thrilled with the big jump. Price had thoughts of her sister, Michelle Bison, who died of breast cancer a year ago. The St. Baldrick's Foundation event at The Harp last year was Bison's last outing before passing, Price said.

"She was a huge supporter of St. Baldrick's," Price said of her sister. "She was bound and determined to get here last year."

Price, like so many at the event, continue to work for the cause with thoughts of others.